Lapho kufika iholide lasebusika noma lasehlobo, izingane zomndeni ziyahlangana, khona-ke ufuna ukuba zenze okuthile okungagcini nje ukuthuthukisa ubuhlakani babo, kodwa futhi kungabavumela ukuba bajabule.Ungabanikeza uchungechunge lwezindida abazozakha, njengesikole , i-zoo, izwe, imoto, inqaba, umlingiswa njll.Bangazikhethela ingqikithi abayithandayo bese begxila ekuqedeleni bebodwa noma ngamaqembu, isikhathi siyahamba, izingane zingakwazi futhi ukufunda ukubekezela, ubuhlakani kanye nokucabanga okwengeziwe ekuhlanganisweni kwephazili.Njengomzali, ungaphinda uchithe isikhathi esiningi uzenzela eyakho imisebenzi ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngokuthi ingane yakho inesikhathi esiyisicefe.